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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad: Hadith 93

5. Looking After Children

الأدب المفرد

5/51 Chapter:

The parent teaching adab and his duty towards his child

بَابُ أَدَبِ الْوَالِدِ وَبِرِّهِ لِوَلَدِهِ

93
Al-Adab Al-Mufrad
Sahih (Al-Albani)
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَلاَمٍ، قَالَ‏:‏ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الأَعْلَى بْنُ عَبْدِ الأَعْلَى الْقُرَشِيُّ، عَنْ دَاوُدَ بْنِ أَبِي هِنْدَ، عَنْ عَامِرٍ، أَنَّ النُّعْمَانَ بْنَ بَشِيرٍ حَدَّثَهُ، أَنَّ أَبَاهُ انْطَلَقَ بِهِ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَحْمِلُهُ فَقَالَ‏:‏ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، إِنِّي أُشْهِدُكَ أَنِّي قَدْ نَحَلْتُ النُّعْمَانَ كَذَا وَكَذَا، فَقَالَ‏:‏ أَكُلَّ وَلَدَكَ نَحَلْتَ‏؟‏ قَالَ‏:‏ لاَ، قَالَ‏:‏ فَأَشْهِدْ غَيْرِي، ثُمَّ قَالَ‏:‏ أَلَيْسَ يَسُرُّكَ أَنْ يَكُونُوا فِي الْبِرِّ سَوَاءً‏؟‏ قَالَ‏:‏ بَلَى، قَالَ‏:‏ فَلاَ إِذًا‏.‏
An-Nu'man ibn Bashir said that his father had carried him to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ). He said, 'Messenger of Allah, I testify to you that I have given an-Nu'man such-and-such. (It was a slave). The Prophet asked, "Have you given each of your children the same"?" "No," he replied. He said, "Then testify to someone other than me." Then the Prophet asked, "Do you not want to show equal kindness to all of them?" "Indeed I do," he replied. He said, "Then do not do it."
Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 93
In-book : Book 5, Hadith 10
English translation : Book 5, Hadith 93