Al-Adab Al-Mufrad
30. General Behaviour
الأدب المفرد
30/247 Chapter:
What a man does in his house
بَابُ مَا يَعْمَلُ الرَّجُلُ فِي بَيْتِهِ
491
Al-Adab Al-Mufradحَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ رَجَاءٍ، وَحَفْصُ بْنُ عُمَرَ، قَالاَ: حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنِ الْحَكَمِ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، عَنِ الأَسْوَدِ قَالَ: سَأَلْتُ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا: مَا كَانَ يَصْنَعُ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فِي أَهْلِهِ؟ فَقَالَتْ: كَانَ يَكُونُ فِي مِهْنَةِ أَهْلِهِ، فَإِذَا حَضَرَتِ الصَّلاةُ خَرَجَ.
Al-Aswad said, "I asked 'A'isha, may Allah be pleased with her, 'What did the Prophet (ﷺ) do when he was with his family?' She replied, 'He would do chores for his family, and when it was time for the prayer, he would go out.'"
Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 538
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 1
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 538
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 1
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 538
492
Al-Adab Al-Mufradحَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا مَهْدِيُّ بْنُ مَيْمُونٍ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ: سَأَلْتُ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا: مَا كَانَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَعْمَلُ فِي بَيْتِهِ؟ قَالَتْ: يَخْصِفُ نَعْلَهُ، وَيَعْمَلُ مَا يَعْمَلُ الرَّجُلُ فِي بَيْتِهِ.
Hisham ibn 'Urwa said that his father said, "I asked 'A'isha, may Allah be pleased with her, 'What did the Prophet (ﷺ) do in his house?' She replied, 'He mended his sandals and worked as any man works in his house.'"
Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 539
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 2
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 539
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 2
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 539
493
Al-Adab Al-Mufradحَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ الْوَلِيدِ، عَنْ سُفْيَانَ، عَنْ هِشَامٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ: سَأَلْتُ عَائِشَةَ: مَا كَانَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَصْنَعُ فِي بَيْتِهِ؟ قَالَتْ: مَا يَصْنَعُ أَحَدُكُمْ فِي بَيْتِهِ؟ قَالَتْ: مَا يَصْنَعُ أَحَدُكُمْ فِي بَيْتِهِ، يَخْصِفُ النَّعْلَ، وَيَرْقَعُ الثَّوْبَ، وَيَخِيطُ.
Hisham said, "I asked 'A'isha, 'What did the Prophet (ﷺ) do in his house?' She replied, 'He did what one of you would do in his house. He mended sandals and patched garments and sewed."
Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 540
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 3
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 540
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 3
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 540
30/248 Chapter:
When a man has love for his brother he should tell him
بَابُ إِذَا أَحَبَّ الرَّجُلُ أَخَاهُ فَلْيُعْلِمْهُ
494
Al-Adab Al-Mufradحَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي مُعَاوِيَةُ بْنُ صَالِحٍ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ عَمْرَةَ، قِيلَ لِعَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا: مَاذَا كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَعْمَلُ فِي بَيْتِهِ؟ قَالَتْ: كَانَ بَشَرًا مِنَ الْبَشَرِ، يَفْلِي ثَوْبَهُ، وَيَحْلِبُ شَاتَهُ.
Amra reported that 'A'isha was asked, "What did the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) do in his house?" She replied, "He was a man like other men. He removed the fleas from his garment and milked his sheep."
Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 541
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 4
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 541
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 4
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 541
495
Al-Adab Al-Mufradحَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ ثَوْرٍ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي حَبِيبُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ، عَنِ الْمِقْدَامِ بْنِ مَعْدِي كَرِبَ، وَكَانَ قَدْ أَدْرَكَهُ، قَالَ: قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم: إِذَا أَحَبَّ أَحَدُكُمْ أَخَاهُ فَلْيُعْلِمْهُ أَنَّهُ أَحَبَّهُ.
Al-Miqdam ibn Ma'dikarib reported that the Prophet (ﷺ) said, "When one of you has love for his brother, he should inform him that he loves him."
Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 542
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 5
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 542
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 5
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 542
496
Al-Adab Al-Mufradحَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ بِشْرٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا قَبِيصَةُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ رَبَاحٍ، عَنْ أَبِي عُبَيْدِ اللهِ، عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ قَالَ: لَقِيَنِي رَجُلٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَأَخَذَ بِمَنْكِبِي مِنْ وَرَائِي، قَالَ: أَمَا إِنِّي أُحِبُّكَ، قَالَ: أَحَبَّكَ الَّذِي أَحْبَبْتَنِي لَهُ، فَقَالَ: لَوْلاَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ: إِذَا أَحَبَّ الرَّجُلُ الرَّجُلَ فَلْيُخْبِرْهُ أَنَّهُ أَحَبَّهُ مَا أَخْبَرْتُكَ، قَالَ: ثُمَّ أَخَذَ يَعْرِضُ عَلَيَّ الْخِطْبَةَ قَالَ: أَمَا إِنَّ عِنْدَنَا جَارِيَةً، أَمَا إِنَّهَا عَوْرَاءُ.
Mujahid said, "One of the Companions of the Prophet (ﷺ) met me and took hold of my shoulder from behind. He said, 'I love you,' and he went on to say, 'The One for whose sake I love you loves you.' He continued, 'If it had not been that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "When a man has love for another man, he should tell him that he loves him," I would not have told you.'"
Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 543
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 6
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 543
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 6
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 543
30/249 Chapter:
When someone has love for a person, he should not quarrel with him nor ask about him
بَابُ إِذَا أَحَبَّ رَجُلا فَلا يُمَارِهِ ولا يَسْأَلُ عَنْهُ
497
Al-Adab Al-Mufradحَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا مُبَارَكٌ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا ثَابِتٌ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ قَالَ: قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم: مَا تَحَابَّا الرَّجُلاَنِ إِلاَّ كَانَ أَفْضَلُهُمَا أَشَدَّهُمَا حُبًّا لِصَاحِبِهِ.
Anas reported that the Prophet (ﷺ) said, "When two men have love for one another, the better of them is the one who has the strongest love for his companion."
Reference: Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 544
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 7
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 544
In-book : Book 30, Hadith 7
English translation : Book 30, Hadith 544